Malcom Fenoff: Really, why are you marrying him? Sounds like he doesn't care about you at all. Why would you want to be with someone, let alone be married to a man whom you say "basically just isn't very nice to me"? You can do better and deserve better. Don't settle!
Violette Vanek: Most people in real life don't do alot of the things featured on Platinum Weddings because they are on a budget and can't afford it. Some couples exchange gifts and others don't. Alot of couples consider the rings and vows to be their gifts to each other.
Keven Woodington: My girlfriend and I were just wondering...
Pasty Cobbett: It is common on the wedding day to exchange gifts. Most of my female friends have bought nice watches for their husbands, with some sort of engraving on the inside.... Basically something nice & sentimental.
Jeremy Donohue: I am confused about the people who are saying "no" to this. I have never heard of anyone here not doing it. Watches! , Cufflinks, etc, are pretty common, but you can also do something that's more persona/specific as welll. The budget is something that is completely up to you (I spent about $2,000 on my fiance's gift, but that's only because I bought him a Cartier watch for an engagement gift .... some women here get their fiance an engagement watch after she gets her ring). You can do something small and inexpensive that's just a token of your love, or you can do something a little more extravagant (eg, the only high end watch he'll ever get). It's usually a very cherished and touching moment for the bride and groom before walking down the isle! It is certainly common, however, for one of the brides maids (usually the MOH) to bring your gift/card to the groom for you while they are getting ready, and for one of the groomsmen/BM to bring yours to you!!Hope this helps! Congrats and have a great wedding!...Show more
Cody Shimko: tell him thatandconsider going to school onlinesee the li! nks belowpeace...Show more
Oscar Waddups: I still want t! o marry him I just want to be safe you know. I want to know that if God forbid something happen to him or we split that I'll be able to take care of myself without running back home to my mom. I still love him and want to be with him, I just want to be safe and I don't know how to explain this through a computer. I don't know how to tell him stop, I can't do this yet through the computer.
Damaris Weiler: I've researched colleges near base but none have what I want to train for which is sonographing. It's a small country state, NC, the school I need to go to is in Hickory or Greenville, nowhere near base which is in Cherry Point. My heart is set on becoming an Ultrasound Tech but those are the best schools in this state for that job. I want to marry him, just after college. It would be pointless to marry now if I can't move in with him until I finish school.
Burt Stoecklin: no, it's not a sheet cake from the grocery store decorated with balloons or action figures! , it's a multi hundred or thousand dollar cake for an adult formal event.
Hal Palowoda: i'm white and my honey is chinese language so permit me supply you some innovations on a thank you to comprise chinese language traditions into your western wedding ceremony extremely than waiting to be sure his bride, the groom and his groomsman will flow to the brides father and mom abode to get her. earlier he's permitted in her bridesmaids placed him by way of a chain of exams (it quite is something like actuality or dare, it quite is often in stable exciting) to coach his love and that he's worth, Then he's permitted in and the couple does a small tea ceramony for her father and mom, the they flow to his abode and do the comparable for his. traditionally the grooms father and mom supply presents to the brides father and mom. Then all of them flow to the ceramony. (The ceramony relies upon on the religions of the folk getting married) Tradionally the bride wears a pink chinese ! language type gown with a dragon and a phenoix representing woman and m! ale. The bride oftentimes ameliorations her gown countless cases in the time of the reception, this became into initially to coach her family individuals had money yet now its purely for exciting. wedding ceremony social gathering is supplied with pink envolopes with money, and those additionally are given to the couple as presents....Show more
Reyes Brunell: i couldn't imagine a baker telling you that they wouldn't make your cake the way you want it.... i think if you pay for it, it should be how you want it. period.
Shena Etulain: I should have been more specific. I was thinking of gift wrapped/boxed gifts like jewelry not rings, kisses, love or their bodies. Also, Platinum Weddings is a tv show on WEtv about over the top expensive weddings.
Rodrigo Pezley: I was once in your place, and I was like to thinking " why cant we see hes being a prick!" but in order for him to change your going to have to continue being nice and giving it your all and loving hi! m 100% all the time in any situation. Getting upset wont want to make him spend more time with you , and it will only make you feel more hopeless in the end, why don't you offer to play video games with him or maybe take a nap together, and surprise him, he will want to spend more time with you, but there is a problem here and if he cares enough he has to do something about it, if its bothering you obviously there's a problem and that needs to be his priority. No relationship is maintenance free, and he needs to know that too, you need to talk, and try to get involved in what he likes to do , and try to get him involved in what you like to do. Im sure it will seem like he dosent notice or care at first but just keep swinging, why dont you rent a video game and surprise him , go home and play with him, im sure he would like that. I know my fiance like it . I hope I was some help...Show more
Claude Gloden: If I've learned anything in my life, is that you can't change a ! person who doesn't WANT to change. I'm curious as to why you're engaged! to a person that doesn't even behave like he truly loves you to begin with. However, I'm not here to judge, you must be with him because you love him, for whatever reasons. So, instead, I suggest you try to make time to do things as a couple. Even if it's just snuggling and watching a movie, or going for a walk...he sounds a tad lazy and immature, what with the videogames and sleeping bit. It's not nice that he treats you coldly when you're crying or upset. You probably need to tell him to put down the game console and have a chat with him. Try to remain calm. Tell him how you feel when he does that. Compromise. Agree to your faults, but don't let him make excuses for his. As for nicer and more romantic-take the reigns, perhaps. Like I said, you can try to arrange things for you to do. Try to be romantic and nice, see if he reciprocates. Try to take an interest in what he likes to do, and try to get him to take an interest in what you like. A relationship is about communic! ation, trust, and love. Work not alone, but as a couple. Good luck!...Show more
Sammy Kar: Ask a wedding consultant and you might find that the American tradition is to exchange gifts. More than 2,000 traditions exist for American weddings, and new ones keep getting added. The more fancy the wedding, the more elaborate and expensive the traditions. In its barest forms, there are two major wedding gifts with beating hearts. Two people give themselves to each other. Add rings, that will be four. I think beyond that it is a matter between two people....Show more
Elfreda Grossen: Bakers could do just about anything that the bride and groom request for their wedding cake. It all depends on how willing the baker is, to accommodate to your needs. Be sure to pick one who takes direction well, listens to you, and is willing to be flexible. Good Luck!Peace.Love.Happiness-World Peace...Show more
Andrew Sinatra: nah- they normally dont exchange, although they do excha! nge on their honeymoon! lol but no, gifts are not exchanged!
Prov! idencia Jalbert: A professional baker can decorate it anyway you want. Typically they don't put writing on it because that is reserved for birthday cakes which are sheet cakes.
Gaynell Pizzaro: I am very surprised at how many people are saying that it is very common in their part of the U.S. It must be the area of the U.S. that they are from. I live in the U.S., but where I live, I know of no one who observes this. There are showers held here before weddings during which people give the new couple gifts, BUT I know of not a single wedding of anyone I know, during which the bride and groom exchanged gifts. This may be because we are a poorer region and people here are prob. so broke after paying for their wedding that they can't afford the gifts....Show more
Freddy Shutler: Break up with him. You can't change a person.
Rheba Cockman: My fiance is on deployment right now but we are able to talk through email and he's suppose to be home next month. Thing is t! hat he's all excited and getting things ready, filling out the marriage license and I'm 18. I don't want to do this now. Plus if we get married now, it would be pointless because I have to move away for three years for college. It would be pointless. I don't know what to do.
Dorine Nurre: Im pretty sure they can do anything on a wedding cakeso yeah they would write on it for you
Ninfa Asby: This Site Might Help You.RE:my fiance doesn't show me any love?Often I feel like my fiance doesn't even want to be with me because he seems so distant. He would rather play video games and sleep than be with me. When he is with me, I don't feel loved by him. He seems like he is being forced to be in a relationship with me or something. He isn't romantic in any......Show more
Floyd Labuda: Who do you mean by ''they''. It depends on where you go & what type of cake it is, for some it would be fine and for others it would not be possible due to the design.
Ron Kelii! pio: Why are you marrying him??? You cannot change anyone. Accept them ! for who they are now. Sounds like you don't want to be with him, so why would you marry him. If he's not treating you the way you should be treated leave him. Plain and simple. No excuses. Do not marry him. Why would you marry a guy like this anyways?!!??!
Florencia Manolakis: My parents did, and I'm one of 19 children and we all did with our spouses. I just went to a wedding this weekend and the bride and groom also exchange gifts. I've been to about 38 weddings so far and they all exchanged gifts.It's just something I've always known of it happening with a bride and groom. It's very common for bride and groom to exchange gifts. My wife's side of the family also does this and 4 of my friends their families do this also. We've spoke about this at work last week and they said that their families also exchange gifts. Groom and bride!...Show more
Oscar Waddups: I've been married twice and never exchanged gifts. I really don't think it's common. The "gift" is t! he love for the other.
Peggy Sandefer: Often I feel like my fiance doesn't even want to be with me because he seems so distant. He would rather play video games and sleep than be with me. When he is with me, I don't feel loved by him. He seems like he is being forced to be in a relationship with me or something. He isn't romantic in any way, he gives me an attitude all the time, when I cry or am upset he doesn't seem to care, he basically just isn't very nice to me. He says that he acts that way because I give him an attitude. The reason I do sometimes give him an attitude is because I am so upset with how he acts towards me and treats me. Any suggestions on how to make him see things from my shoes and understand that he isn't treating me the way he should. Any way to get him to be nicer and more romantic?? Thanks!!...Show more
Merna Fauset: Most professional cake decorators can most definitely write on wedding cakes. I have seen several that have the words to t! he couple's favorite song or words that are meaningful to them written ! on the sides as part of the decoration. It does not look tacky at all... it is actually very tasteful and really means something to the couple.
Cody Petrulis: It's more common than not for the bride and groom to exchange a gift the night before or the morning of their wedding. The most traditional gift for a groom to give his bride is a strand of pearls to wear on the wedding day. Of course it can be something as simple as a bouquet of flowers. A good gift for the groom is something engraved with his initials, or an accessory like a set of cuff links or a watch.
Thurman Buege: yes they do... your wedding cake can be tailored to whatever likes u have u can even have spray on pcitures done nowadys. pick a decent baker and they ll do whatever it takes to make the bride happy
Sharri Scalley: Traditionally brides and grooms don't exchange gifts on their wedding day. They do, however, exchange gifts annually on their anniversary. I believe you meant to say ! the platinum anniversary.
Houston Venezia: There is no way to get him to be nicer or more romantic, I'm afraid. You can't change other people, ever.The fact that he blames you for his very poor attitude is cause for concern. This is a classic defense posture of a future abuser. Abusers never take responsibility for their violent behaviour - it's always someone else's fault (usually the spouse's, but sometimes they blame work, stress, alcohol, etc.). They never get mad, someone makes them mad. This guy sounds like bad news, I'm sorry.Ask yourself: why do you love him? What is it about him that makes you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Because the way you describe him, I can't see that you love him or even much like him. Have you perhaps confused infatuation - the butterflies in your stomach feeling you get - with love?...Show more
Anibal Scheid: They can write on wedding cakes in frosting, or buttercream and fondant. I have had wedding cakes for my ! brides that had writing all over it when they wanted something written ! on the design.I had one bride and groom that wanted their vows written on each side of the cake, and it was very nice....Show more
Marti Declue: sounds like you two are having trouble communicating. Why not see a marriage counselor?
Nell Dipiero: My sister is getting married in august and i was looking up pictures online and i personally want to become a culinary pastry chef so i know a thing or to abt that. You can have whatever you want on wedding cake. Some bride and groom's choose monograms which have the brides' first initial, next the middle letter would be the first letter of their new last name together, and the last letter would be the first letter of the grooms' name. One could always choose to have words around the cake sides saying special quotes, or words such as love, peace, forever etc.. and repeating. Hope i helped....Show more
Leif Serabia: Either you are misreading him, or you need to kick his butt to the road. If there is any chance y! ou are misreading his signals as a "lack of love", then read the Five Love Languages.... maybe he is showing his love in a way you aren't accustomed to.If not, then get rid of him. Why marry someone you don't feel loved by?...Show more
Elfreda Grossen: it is very common for the bride and groom to exchange gifts. the gifts are wedding rings! duh! and their kiss duh!
Charissa Riley: why are you marrying him if he doesn't treat you good? Do you want to spend your life with someone like that? You can't change a person unless they want to change themselves
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